The wait !

We all wait everyday. I know some people also wait for the alarm to ring so that they can get up. Is'nt it weird that something like time is the most fascinating luxury everyone has yet very few of us know the worth. While some want to pass time and kill time some just do not have enough and need more.

How about spending every second we got in our hand doing something that builds a beautiful memory. All the time we want to pass or kill can be put in creating the fun moments with a loved one or just pampering ourself with awesomeness of the unique individual that we are . When we do a good job how about giving a kudos to ourself and put a smile of the face even though everyone missed the greatest moment of our life .

Then when we have those sad and depressed times of loneliness or disappointment, we spend them by retrieving the golden memories we stored in our mind and hypothetically in our hearts and realize there is more to life than a sad face and bad attitude. I guess this involves lot of dreaming and especially the ability to dream great things when you think you are at the lowest point emotionally. Its a conscious effort !

God give me the strength.

Stay away from me ...

Its always good to keep people so close but so far. Some people love to preach and some do not. Rather than hating them for telling you stuff you are totally not interested in or not concerned with. What do we lose if we listen to them and just nod and just dont take what you don't want to. Like a box of chocolates, we can just take the one which we want and leave the rest and not blame them for offering the whole box instead. Some people want to see us over till we execute their advice that can be really irritating. live and let live. Though we claim to be living in the same real world, no two people live in the same virtual world. To be practical, till you are not sure about yourself, you do not have to care when people are trying to influence you. Sometimes acting in a humble way is the greatest self achievement. I am sure being as independent and self sufficient we are, we don't want to tolerate stuff people say to us ! but as my dad says sometimes, "Agreements yield better results than Arguments". I am still not there.....

Chasing the butterfly !

Sometimes life seems so unfair... especially when we are waiting for a miracle!.. we deny the facts that miracles are not a part of life ;) ... and plan our life around the one card god has to play to set things up for us. I do agree that this gamble works sometimes .. but I guess there are more failures and disappointments in this path of success... if at all ! .. why do we share our dreams with others? why should I tell anyone what my dream job is and what my dream home is or anything whatsoever and create an illusion and try to live up to what others are expecting ... It is sometimes better to keep some things for yourself... get into tht comfy corner of your mind where you are not the mighty king , but a little girl who gets amused chasing a butterfly !

Closed doors invite you to peek

Closed doors temp you to peek in.

Some things are just explained by saying its in human nature ! very surprisingly it finds a closed door more inviting than a open one. When there are infinite number of ways to do something wrong, and so very few ways to do it right, we always get confused... When it comes to making a choice, everything seems to be fair .... It so happens many times that making the right choice is no different than making a wrong choice! and we fall for the simple trick and get into doing something absolutely senseless !! this is why we get tempted to chose the closed door. We wish .. and we always hope that there is something fabulous stored behind there ! you do not care how wonderful or plain scenario the open door is showing, we want to take the risk sometimes ! that tells us apart. Its an absolute gamble but the probability is 50% and is promising to give it a shot !

Why do we always want to peek into the closed door?

I want it all !!

Sometimes life makes you wonder why me?? and sometimes why not me?? .. if ever you stop wondering about them then life makes no sense. Life mei sab kuch sabhi ko nehe milta.. but what defines sab kuch makes all the difference. Nobody gets satisfied with anything for sure.. if you say you are then you have attained something very unusually delightful and pleasantly disturbing. Sometimes to let go can be the simplest and yet toughest thing to do, and to hold on to something can be the most satisfying and yet burdensome. Striking the right balance without making anything an obsession yet maintaining its significance is something we need to achieve. Weirdly so people are on either side of it.
Grapes are sour!! this is attitude for most of the things we could not do, did not get a chance to try or are not capable of doing.

Socha na tha

When life takes u where u never wanted to go but always wished to be.

Fortunately or unfortunately if a person finally gets there should she be happy?? I mean go for it?? its tricky when your mind say nay and ur heart says yeah. If you don't know what you want, how can you get it? Thoughts become swinging pendulum with emotions in complete chaos. hmm.. bahot ho gaya na natak.. just chill re.. either solve the situation now and fry yourself or just wait for the oscillations to stop and think through. Its all about time.... tht Situations change, priorities change with situations and so do emotions .. when there is so much uncertainty... whats the use of making conclusions?? Just stay happy and do what makes you happy for this moment!! I live for today and not for tomorrow..!!!

who cares....

I wonder who cares for anybody's ideas.. so why care mine.. but this blog is not for anybody more than it is for me. I can always look back and see how I used to think, and how the changes in my life are affecting my thoughts so that I can make better decisions..

All this you can think is very rare for a girl like me who is categorized as a total maniac... does not care for time or timeliness,... lives life for the moment.. takes abrupt decisions,.. forgets the most imp stuff... does not prioritise things properly... but all this is a way to keep myself happy.. I can claim to be happier than many ppl who are more successful and richer than I am.

so here goes a blog about my philosophies, ideas, values and rules of life .. I care a damn for criticism .. lol!!